Change follows the dismantling of resistance. Understanding resistance requires uncovering the reasons we have to remain stuck. First understanding the ambivalence and benefits of stagnation allows us to find the energy and path to a new experience, new choices and a different world from within. While discovering all the reasons for NO, we can write the roadmap to YES. Through planning, advocacy and accountability, within attainable and well positioned goals, we will manifest what once seemed only a dream.